Why do Hoarders Feel Embarrassed?

Hoarding Embarrassment

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Hoarding is embarrassing to reveal to outsiders because the hoarder knows that their behavior is most likely not considered “normal” by most people. In some cases, the hoarder can become so embarrassed and fearful of people’s reactions to their lifestyle that they choose to isolate themselves from loved ones, leaving them unable to address their cluttered state of being because they can avoid it by themselves.

The negative feelings of embarrassment and fear combined with isolation will only contribute to the problem further rather than the solution. The individual may refuse to seek help because of the emotional attachment that they have to their items and the potential judgment and mockery if they reveal their habits and home to others.

Friends and family who know of someone with hoarding behavior need to be patient and understanding with the individual. It is important not to approach them angrily or in a condescending manner because such an approach will only hurt and offend them. Do your homework and research hoarding behavior as well as how to communicate with hoarders.

Clutter Embarrassment and Fear

For those who are feeling shame and humiliation due to hoarding habits and household conditions, help is available. Do not fear judgment and remember you are not alone. The hoarding condition is very prevalent throughout the world, affecting roughly 5% of the population. Mental healthcare professionals are trained to assist with hoarding situations, and specialty hoarding cleanup service professionals, like Address Our Mess, provide compassionate, judgment free services to help alleviate the clutter! Don’t let the embarrassment of hoarding hold you back.

Call 410-589-2747 or email info@addressourmess.com for more information. We are here to help!

Fri, 02/05/2016 - 13:12 by Kenneth Donnelly